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Myths and stereotypes are taken as truth in Indian society. There are many myths about male sexuality and sexual health in India that everyone treats as a reality. Today here we will discuss the top 10 most shocking myths on male sexuality and then discuss how they are false. Our best sexologist in Delhi, Dr PK Gupta, has corrected these myths to spread awareness of sexual health among our youth.

#1 Myth – Men Are Always Ready For Sex

Everyone in India thinks it is normal for a man to be ready for sex always. They also believe that men have a higher sexual drive than women. These myths have taken place in our society so deeply that if a man does not have a sex drive then he is not considered a man.

Truth About This Myth

Men are human beings, they too can feel tired, exhausted, and sick which can lower their sexual drive. Furthermore, both males and females have an equal sexual drive. Therefore, there is no scientific reason for men to believe they have to act wild to show their masculinity.

#2 Myth – Only Gay Males Contract HIV

Another top myth in India among males is that only gay males contract HIV. Everyone believes gay men have unsafe sex more than straight men which makes them contract HIV more easily than straight men.

Truth About This Myth

HIV (Human Immunodeficiency Virus) can affect anyone, it is a virus that does not see your sexuality, orientation, gender, and sexual practices. Therefore, anyone can contract HIV if they are not taking adequate precautions.

#3 Myth – Using a Condom Means No Pregnancy

Most men have this thinking that if they are using a condom then there will be no chance of pregnancy. There are many cases in social media where men accuse a woman of infidelity (cheating) if they get pregnant while the man has used condoms.

Truth About This Myth

Using a condom reduces the pregnancy risk only significantly. It does not have a 100% guaranteed protection. No TV ad or condom packet ever guarantees 100% birth control, instead, they are 98% effective.

#4 Myth – Premature Ejaculation Means Shame

Premature Ejaculation is a sexual disorder in which men orgasm faster than they want. And almost every man feels shame and embarrassment to have this disorder. They don’t seek help either because of this shame and even start distancing from their partner.

Truth About This Myth

There is nothing shameful about having a sexual disorder. You can treat this disorder if you seek an experienced and talented sexologist. Proper counseling, therapy, medication, and exercise can prevent this disorder.

#5 Myth – An Erection Means Sexual Arousal

This is a myth about males that everyone has, that an erection always means that the male is sexually aroused. 

Truth About This Myth

An erection does not always indicate arousal. There are various physiological reasons unrelated to arousal that can cause an erection, such as REM sleep (morning wood), hormonal fluctuations, stress, anxiety, etc.

#6 Myth – Masturbation Weakens Men

There are many myths and religious bans on masturbation. Some think that frequent masturbation or ejaculation can weaken men or affect their strength.

Truth About This Myth

There is no scientific proof that masturbation weakens men. Instead, it is good for everyone as it is a part of our sexual health and lets us learn about our own bodies. Even if you are frequently during masturbation it would only lead to temporary exhaustion and nothing else.

#7 Myth – The Withdrawal Method Prevents Pregnancy

There is a withdrawal method to prevent pregnancy that is popular among most males. They think they can have safe sex without a condom and even prevent pregnancy as long as they pull out before ejaculating.

Truth About This Myth

This myth is false as even after “pulling out” before orgasm can lead to pregnancy. This is because men’s pre-ejaculate fluids contain sperm. Furthermore, this method does not provide any protection against STIs either.

#8 Myth – Infertility is Always a Woman’s Problem

The myth that infertility is always a woman’s problem is so deeply fixed in our society that even educated people believe this. Whenever a couple cannot conceive they always start with the woman’s tests and medication. 

Truth About This Myth

Infertility affects both men and women equally. About 40% to 50% of cases are about male infertility. Hence, evaluating both partners’ health is important rather than blaming only one gender.

#9 Myth – Men Don’t Experience Sexual Pain

One of the most common myths that even women believe is that only women experience sexual pain, men don’t. 

Truth About This Myth

The truth is that even men can experience sexual pain. However, the reasons can vary, such as infections, skin conditions, Peyronie’s disease, prostate problems, and tight foreskin. For men, pain during sex is not normal, they need to seek help right away.

#10 Myth – Homosexuality is a Mental Disorder

Most people in India still believe that homosexuality is a mental disorder. They believe that as long as their kids receive proper counseling they will not be homosexual anymore.

Truth About This Myth

Homosexuality is not a disorder and does not require any form of treatment. It is a natural variation of human sexuality that even the American Psychiatric Association (APA) and World Health Organization recognized.

Consult Our Best Sexologist in Delhi Dr PK Gupta For More Information!

If you are going through any sexual disorder or dysfunction you need to seek the best sexologist doctor in Delhi right away. You can contact Dr. PK Gupta if you want more information about these myths or the truth about them. This sexologist is talented and skilled in everything, he patiently listens to his patients before making any decisions. Furthermore, the treatments here always follow the results. If the results are not positive then the treatments will be changed right away. So, hesitate no more and contact us for your better sexual health!